Jim,
My car was stock suspension when I started. I'm far from a suspension expert and may get corrected on a few points/options as there's numerous ways to to obtain improved safe geometry. I'll just touch the tip of this iceberg.
First handling modification move was firm and lower springs. HO Performance front and Global West leafs with 1" blocks rear. One of my next moves will be Global West's Cat5 bushing system in my leafs.
Second was firmer shocks Koni at firmest setting front, Monroe Gas Magnum rears.....remember these were done years ago.
The steering was stock and scary, aligned it to max caster which gave me an aggressive camber of -1 to -1.2, not ideal for the street. Next was having Lee rebuild my box to a quick ratio 2.25 turns and install the firmest valving. The valving made a huge difference.
Regarding control arms - You can keep the stock arms and perform the Guldstrand mod works, and add Howe tall ball joints and tie rod ends. (After watching the historic races yesterday, they all appeared to run the Guldstrand mod and stock arms due to regulations and some of those cars handle very well.) On the track it appears the weak part of the stock lower arm is the ball joint and bushing mount areas which can be beefed up.....depends on how hard you're going to push it.
SPC has a fully adjustable upper arm, and there's numerous quality "one piece" upper arms Detroit Speed, Speed Tech, Ride Tech, Global West, Hotchkis, etc. If you go with non-adjustable uppers and lowers don't mix & match manufacturers geometries.
Stock OEM spindles appear to get the job done and won't hinder getting decent brakes.
Brakes are another cookie jar of good choices, if you don't desire the brand names and appearance, Kore3's has kit's that cover most needs and work well, besides you'd like dealing with Tobin.
There's a lot of good info in Pozzi's site:
www.pozziracing.com and Marc at SC&C has also provided a lot of good info to consider. There's so many good sources it really complicates the process. Personally I'm leaning towards modified stock in a Smokey Yunick kind of way.....easier on my budget and I like the old school method with my particular car.
That's just a little start, hopefully it helps in your quest. Don't hesitate to call if you'd like.
Or you could simplify and just have Vince "handle" it.