Prayers Needed

[waynieZ]

This morning at 1:20 AM my nephew and his girl friend were in a car accident in Somerset Ma. They were coming home from bike week in Laconia NH. They lost control of the car and hit a tree rolled and were thrown from the car. We got the call at 3:30 I called the police department and asked about getting in touch with Lori's parents. The officer wouldn't talk to me and said someone would call me back right then it felt like a hot knife went through my heart. I knew what to expect. They were rushed to RI hospital and John was pronounced on arrival I can't even saw the word. My brother and sister in law were here for my great nephews graduation. His party was at my house Sunday and John and Lori were here with us. At the end of the night hes hugged and kissed us all and said he loved us. Thats the last we ever saw of them. We've been so lucky to be so close all our lives. John was with Lori for a little over a year I've never seen him so happy. He got burned by a girl he loved and never trusted any women again until Lori. It breaks my heart that they only had a year together.
Lori is in RI hospital in critical condition being operated on tonight. Please pray for her recovery and for John to rest in peace.
I love you Magoo (John)
Never pass up a chance to tell the ones you love how much they mean to you.
Sorry tihs is so long every one is in bed and I'm afraid to close my eyes and realize this is true.

[Greg from Aus]

Wayne, so sorry for your loss, and my thoughts are with the young girl, with the challenges ahead.

Greg

[skatinjay27]

damn Wayne that terrible, Im so sorry.
she will definitely be in my thoughts.

[Rick D]

Wow Waynie, just said a prayer. Hug your family and tell them you love them every day. We are truly here on barrowed time, you just never know. But John is in a better place this I know R.I.P John

[waynieZ]

Thank you my head know its real but my heart won't let me fully believe it.

[RdHuggr68]

Sorry for you and your familes loss.
Kevin

[Flash68]

So sorry to hear Wayne. You and your family are in my thoughts.

[intocarss]

So sorry to hear about this, my condolences to you and yours. May John RIP and may Lori make a quick and full recovery. Prayers sent

[DRJDVM's '69]

Wow. I'm so sorry. It's scary just how quickly your entire life can change

My thoughts and prayers are with you

[Spiffav8]

Wayne,

I wish I was better with words, but then again there are none that can make this all okay. You, John, Lori and the entire families are in my thoughts are prayers.

Stay strong brother.

[aany001]

you are in our prayers!

[FETorino]

Sometimes life and its events just don't make sense. I'll keep you and Lori in my thoughts.

[intocarss]

Sorry tihs is so long every one is in bed and I'm afraid to close my eyes and realize this is true.

I think I speak for everyone ... And will say NO apologies are necessary......We're all here for you

[Ron in SoCal]

May G-d bless you Wayne, Lori and your whole family. I'll speak to the big guy tonight and let him know the Lat-G family is sending a blessing along for John.

[DFRESH]

So sorry for such a terrible loss brother. Our family will be praying for as much peace as is possible at a time like this. Keep us posted on her condition as you are available.

Doug

[Vegas69]

So sorry buddy. We are all pulling for her and your family.

[youthpastor]

wow Wayne, our prayers are with you guys. please keep us posted.

[Lenie]

Wayne, sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.

[Sieg]

Very sorry to read this Wayne. Sincerest condolences to you and family members.

Apologies for grieving within the circle of friendship are not required. :thumbsup:

[Track Junky]

Sorry to read of your loss Wayne. My deepest condolences. God be with you.

[sokoloka]

Wayne,

My prayers go out to you and your entire family. So sorry to hear of your loss.
Be strong, your nephew is in a better place now.

[sixnina]

We will be praying for you and your family as well.

[67ragtp]

Wayne, Im so sorry, we are praying for you, keep the faith.

Rich

[edge04]

My prayers are with you and your family.

[ccracin]

So sorry to hear this Wayne. Stay strong for your family. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

[CRCRFT78]

Sorry for your loss Wayne. My condolences to you and the entire family. May Lori have a speedy recovery.

[dunnjun]

We're praying for you and your family Wayne.

[pro-touring.no]

Wayne..... I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...

Kjell

[westoz]

There is nothing that can be said to make a sudden loss like this more bearable, stay strong mate.

[John510]

Sorry to hear this Wayne. My prayers are with you

[waynieZ]

Thank you everyone it means a lot to me to have a place to let some things out. My sister in law can't discuss it yet and my brother is strong but he's like he's lost in the woods. I went to the crash site today. So tough!
Lori is still hanging on she has broken ribs broken lower vertebra in her back a broken jaw and had to have a blood clot removed form her brain. She is a tuff girl and we're praying for her and her family.
Thanks again.
Wayne

[tones2SS]

Sorry for your loss Wayne. That is terrible.
My thoughts and prayers for Lori.

[Sonar Chief]

Wayne .... sorry for your loss. I''ll ask the big man to watch over you and your family.

[Bucketlist2012]

So sorry to hear about your loss...

May God comfort you and your family..

[WSSix]

My condolences to you and your family Wayne. Keep the memories of him in your mind and heart.

[scherp69]

Wayne...so sorry for your loss. My condolences.

[Shmoov69]

Wow.... I'm sorry for the tragic loss. I WILL pray for comfort, guidance, peace and blessings for you and your family. Let us know if there is anything we can do.

[frankv11]

My condolences Wayne to you and your family. May god bless you all

[Big-Head]

My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

[bodom22]

Wow. I'm very sorry to hear that. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. You never know what life is going to throw at you. All you can do is make the most of the time you have with the ones you love.

[Al Moreno]

Wow Wayne, what can be said that hasn't been said yet. My prayers go off to you and your family.

[waynieZ]

Thank you everyone, I appreciate all the well wishes they mean a lot.
Nothing new on Lori.

[Jay Hilliard]

I am so sorry Wayne. I will pray for peace and comfort in your hearts as only GOD can provide that. NO human words can at a time such as this.

I will pray for Lori as well.

Again, So Sorry to hear this has happened.

Jay

[elitecustombody]

Sorry for your loss, Wayne.

[56pickup]

Very sorry for your loss wayne. My prayers go out to you and your family

[rwhite692]

Very sorry to read this, Wayne. We will keep your family in our prayers,
Rob

[Rybar]

Wayne, so sorry for your loss. Condolences to your family and praying Lori pulls through.

[cencalc6]

Very Sorry for your loss Wayne

[89 RS]

Sorry for your loss Wayne. My thoughts and prayers go to your family and friends.

[waynieZ]

My nephew's memorial is tomorrow night. Its been a long week for the family.
We went to see Lori yesterday and spent time talking to her (I believe unconscious people still hear us.) She is still in a medically induced coma the wired her jaw and remove a piece of her scull because of swelling in her brain. We still hold out hope for her.
Wayne

[DOOM]

Wayne . Sorry to here this our prayers are with you .

[Spiffav8]

Stay strong Wayne. We are all here for you.

[Matt@BOS]

So sorry to hear about this Wayne. That is a terrible event that no one should have to deal with.

Matt

[intocarss]

More Prayers sent. Stay strong

[DFRESH]

Still praying brother.

Doug

[fleetus macmullitz]

18 The Lord is near the brokenhearted;
He saves those crushed in spirit.

Psalms 34:18

My deepest condolences Wayne
to you and the families...

[waynieZ]

Thank you We had John's memorial tonight over 100 of his friends came and so did all of Lori's 4 children and her parents. They stayed all night with us until 11pm. John's ashes are home with us and everyone is beat. I'm so proud of my wife she has a heart of an angel. She got up and read stories from when John was growing up. I tease the crap out of all the women in my life and especially my sister in law ( Johns mother ) and he was just like me. Every time he would aggravate her she'd say YOUR JUST LIKE YOUR UNCLE WAYNE!!! You couldn't see it but my chest would grow 2" with pride being compared to him. He gave a women a price to do some work for her. The night he got in the accident they used his recent calls to find us and called her at 3:30 AM. While he was at her house I guess he made a good impression. She came to the wake to pay her respects. He never even did any work at her house.

Lori is making one step forward and one back. She opened her eyes for a few seconds but now she has pneumonia.

Wayne

[Sieg]

Your sister inlaw is going to need a lot of attention over the next 6 months do what you can to make sure she gets it. :thumbsup: I can't imagine the void left in a mothers heart from losing a child.

Time heals but her scars won't go away. :(

Good to hear Lori's still in the game, hopefully they can control the pneumonia.

[Shmoov69]

Rough day....and many more to come. I'm so sorry for you and your family Wayne. Prayers will continue to go out.

[out2kayak]

Hoping and praying for the very best during this tough time for you and yours.

-- Joe

[Bucketlist2012]

More prayers are sent your way.

Stay strong, and know that many are praying for all of you.

[67XR7]

So.. Sorry for your Loss!

We too had one this Last week, and will miss him TONS!

[waynieZ]

An updae on Lori. Shes still in RI hospital but they say she needs to go to a rehab center to see if they can stimulate her brain. The hospital can't do anymore for her. Hope is getting dim for her.

[Sieg]

Sorry to hear this..........fingers crossed for a miracle. The human body's ability to repair itself never cease to amaze me. :thumbsup:

[Greg from Aus]

I'm also sorry to hear that Wayne, My thoughts are still with her.

Greg

[Ron in SoCal]

Hang in there Wayne. As Soctt said, miracles do happen!

[tones2SS]

Hang in there Wayne. I will continue to pray for her.

[daytonayellaz]

Wayne... Im a little late as I have not seen this. Im very sorry for your loss brother!! You, your family and Lori and her family will be in our prayers. As always...we are stronger in numbers, and that goes for prayer as well. You have many pulling for you here!

[waynieZ]

Thank you everyone. We're still praying.

[Bucketlist2012]

I had forgotten and your post got me praying again.

Keep us posted so we can send Prayers your way.

Mike

[intocarss]

More Prayers sent

[awr68]

Just reading this now Wayne, sorry to hear this! I will be praying for you and your family. Very sad!

[waynieZ]

thanks Guy's

[geberhard]

Wayne, sorry for your loss and prayers your and your family's way :(

Gui

[syborg tt]

Wayne, I am so sorry my prayers are with your family

[57hemicuda]

Wow, so young. My thougts and prayers are with you and your family. All you can do is take away peace that he is in a better place, and wish for her a speedy recovery. So sorry,God Bless, Ron

[DFRESH]

Wayne, any news on Lori and her condition? How are all you guys doing? We were just praying as a family tonight here in So Cal---any updates would be great--or you can PM.

Doug

[waynieZ]

Thanks Doug. Lori is now at Spalding rehab near Boston Ma. Its supposed to be a very good facility. I wrote to her Son and he said she is still in the coma. Physically she is healing but hasn't opened her eyes or anything. We're all still praying and hoping.
As far as us we're getting by. So many things remind me of him all the time, trying to think good time with him. My brother ( His father ) never lets you know how he's doing, at least he's been talking when I call. My sister in law on the other hand is still not good. She's a 2 time cancer surviver and was still depressed from that. When this hapened she doesn't leave the house and some days won't even get dressed. She has John's ashes and to some people it may comfort them but I think she dwells on seeing them everyday.

It was their fiftyth aniversary on the 29th and she and Jim did go out to eat with my wifes sister and her husband. I'm hoping this may help her to get going again. I know how I feel and can't imagine how much this hurt them, but we're praying time will help heal the deep loss.
Thank you for asking.

Wayne

[DFRESH]

Ok brother--our family will keep praying for you all.

Doug

[waynieZ]

Thank you.

[lutzy]

Im so sorry to hear that terrible news..its everyones worst nightmare. Life most not be taken for granted..enjoy what you have because it could be gone in a split second..

[Bucketlist2012]

More prayer's sent..

This thread makes you think of the fragile nature of life, and how lucky we are..

I hope all your family heals in time, and can come to peace with what has happened.

Mike

[Jay Hilliard]

I'm so sorry to hear this. You all are in more prayers.

[MCB Matt]

Very sorry about your loss....i have lost very close family members and i understand how hard it is to even believe its true and not just a horrible nightmare

Our thoughts are with you at MCB

[Ripped]

Our thoughts are with you and your loved ones.

[waynieZ]

Thanks Guys
The other day I was looking for a number in my phone and came across John's cell number. It brought it all back. But I still couldn't delete it.

[Sieg]

Chose to remember the good times. That has worked well for me for eleven years after my Dad's unexpected passing. :thumbsup:

[intocarss]

More prayers sent. Over the last couple of years, I've lost 4 close friends and I still cannot delete their e mail addys or their phone #'s