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XLexusTech
04-07-2019, 04:37 AM
Hey guys. Sorry if this seems really desperate or odd but here goes. I have been given the “unofficial” but reliable heads up that my role at work is being eliminated in the coming months. After more then 25 years in technology it’s going to be near impossible fir me to be rehired. Not because my tech is old in reality I work in an emerging space. However, men in their 50’s have a real hard time getting hired in tech.
It doesn’t help that I am far from tech centers like the valley or the PNW. Moving is a non option my wife has a small business she can only have here.
So looking for ideas, any online business or franchises people recommend? What about other ideas? The angst is eating me up.
Any help appreciated
raustinss
04-07-2019, 05:50 AM
Hell of a move and not sure what exactly tech you're into .....Waterloo, Ontario. Kitchener,Waterloo,cambridge is a pretty happening area for tech . Waterloo seems to be from what I understand second to silicon valley in north America. Good luck and if theres anything I can do let me know
572Camaro
04-07-2019, 08:52 AM
XLexusTech,
1. Hang in there. I have personally been in your exact situation.
2. Don't move because your wife has a job there.
3. May I help? What "tech" are you proficient?
4. I need access to a 3D printer for a stupid aquarium I am building..,
5. But now I stutter.., Hang in there! It will be okay,
XLexusTech
04-07-2019, 04:18 PM
I work in management at a software development organization My strongest skill and what I am known for is building high performance teams.
Pm me for link to my professional profile
Thanks again guys
jcal87
04-07-2019, 05:58 PM
I work in management at a software development organization My strongest skill and what I am known for is building high performance teams.
Pm me for link to my professional profile
Thanks again guys
The great thing about technology is that it allows you to work anywhere in the world. Many companies now are allowing their employees to work remotely from home. If I were you I would reach out to as many tech recruiters as I could find and see what you can get.
Stay positive and don't get discouraged! Remember, everything happens for a reason even though we may not see it right away.
dhutton
04-07-2019, 06:14 PM
My first thought was can you join your wife in her business and perhaps help her take it to the next level?
Don
XLexusTech
04-07-2019, 06:56 PM
My first thought was can you join your wife in her business and perhaps help her take it to the next level?
Don
So your single Don ? :badidea: Lol. Yeah that’s out, she barely tolerates me as it is :drowninga:
dhutton
04-08-2019, 10:11 AM
So your single Don ? :badidea: Lol. Yeah that’s out, she barely tolerates me as it is :drowninga:
Not single but damn lucky... :lol:
Don
Ketzer
04-08-2019, 01:42 PM
Happened to a buddy of mine in January, kinda knew it was coming but still sucked. He's stayed in touch with friends at the company and now that things have cooled down/restructured, they are calling him about opportunities.... his problem is he got used to the early retirement and now is being kinda picky....
Jeff-
out2kayak
04-10-2019, 08:05 PM
Do you have a case for litigation due to lack of compliance with the Age Discrimination in Employment Act of 1967 (https://www.eeoc.gov/laws/statutes/adea.cfm)?
Not sure if you have government / government support businesses that do software in your area, but it's worth taking a look and they tend to comply with the various discrimination laws a bit more rigorously.
If your a strong leader in software, there is a strong market available regardless of your age, but it really depends on where your located. Something to also check out is a telecommute gig. Being in a leadership role is more difficult, but if you still have software skills that are in demand, there are opportunities out there.
Thoughts?
XLexusTech
04-22-2019, 04:23 AM
Hey Joe.
I do qualify however it would be very difficult to benefit from litigation as this is a large company with deep pockets and strong legal groups. Also harder to prove then deny.
Remote leaders are very rare and I am most effective when on the ground. Unless the entire team is remote.
Thank you for the thoughts
Do you have a case for litigation due to lack of compliance with the Age Discrimination in Employment Act of 1967 (https://www.eeoc.gov/laws/statutes/adea.cfm)?
Not sure if you have government / government support businesses that do software in your area, but it's worth taking a look and they tend to comply with the various discrimination laws a bit more rigorously.
If your a strong leader in software, there is a strong market available regardless of your age, but it really depends on where your located. Something to also check out is a telecommute gig. Being in a leadership role is more difficult, but if you still have software skills that are in demand, there are opportunities out there.
Thoughts?
XLexusTech
04-22-2019, 04:30 AM
Considering (leaning heavily towards) relocating. When it rains it pours; don’t ask ... but yeah moving is now on the table.
Looking for thoughts on locations
Calafornia ?
Austin TX
Seattle WA
New York (city)
Any other areas I should consider
Assuming of course I could find something, the market is strong so I think so. If I am going to move across the country then Iwabt to go where thier is strong car culture
raustinss
04-22-2019, 04:59 PM
CANADA... Waterloo Ontario. We smell God damn fantastic, we drink , fight and play hockey way better then anyone else , free health care. Ummmmm oh you can practice drifting donuts and such in the winter and everyone just thinks oh hey theres Dave out for a rip bud
dhutton
04-22-2019, 05:28 PM
Considering (leaning heavily towards) relocating. When it rains it pours; don’t ask ... but yeah moving is now on the table.
Looking for thoughts on locations
Calafornia ?
Austin TX
Seattle WA
New York (city)
Any other areas I should consider
Assuming of course I could find something, the market is strong so I think so. If I am going to move across the country then Iwabt to go where thier is strong car culture
I would consider the DFW area, Plano and Richardson in particular. Pretty strong tech hiring and less expensive than Austin.
Don
GregWeld
04-22-2019, 06:06 PM
Considering (leaning heavily towards) relocating. When it rains it pours; don’t ask ... but yeah moving is now on the table.
Looking for thoughts on locations
Calafornia ?
Austin TX
Seattle WA
New York (city)
Any other areas I should consider
Assuming of course I could find something, the market is strong so I think so. If I am going to move across the country then Iwabt to go where thier is strong car culture
#1 — having been married to someone that was head of HR all of her career — it’s MUCH better to job hunt while still employed.
#2 — I travel a lot - and have lived in New York City - Seattle and California.
New York City is CRAZY expensive - so even if you have a fantastic job - you’ll be hard pressed to live decently.
Seattle is turning into a cesspool of homeless and immigrants..... After 30 years of living there - you couldn’t pay me to go back. And that rain everyone talks about — yeah — it’s miserable. Gray dark cold - and the most beautiful place in the country in the spring and summer.
California is another place that USED to be great - but once again - when you factor in the housing costs - taxes on EVERYTHING - ridiculous commutes - ridiculous prices. If you’re rich and can live in Newport Beach.... and not have to commute - it would be great....
Austin is one of my favorite towns. It’s fun - it’s hip - it’s growing - it has a nice lake (Travis) - trees - hills - affordable housing.... in the suburbs - or live downtown and walk everywhere.... it has a great food scene and music.... has a great race track.... BBQ....
WSSix
04-22-2019, 06:55 PM
Atlanta. We have plenty of software and tech. I'm not sure if it's in your particular area of expertise though. We've got a better car culture than most of the other places listed as well. Cost of living isn't bad depending on which area you're in. Give it a look. Good luck to you!
BonzoHansen
04-22-2019, 08:17 PM
Considering (leaning heavily towards) relocating. When it rains it pours; don’t ask ... but yeah moving is now on the table.
Looking for thoughts on locations
Calafornia ?
Austin TX
Seattle WA
New York (city)
Any other areas I should consider
Assuming of course I could find something, the market is strong so I think so. If I am going to move across the country then Iwabt to go where thier is strong car culture
Austin is the only place on that list i'd consider for the reasons listed. North' Carolina?
Try2paz
05-08-2019, 05:09 AM
I'm in the tech business myself and travel nationally for work.
Id stay out of CA it's too expensive at this point.
My favorites on the list are Austin / Phx both with strong tech markets.
Have you considered looking at resellers? Typically they are in demand of PM's and have a better work life balance than some of the OEM's.
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